Santa Is Alive and Well

Santa Is Alive and Well
We see him in the acts of kindness, both random and planned. From him we learn that making others happy has rewards that are immeasurable.

So There U Have It

The last and final Act of a Three Act Play
is shaping up as a hopefully long and healthy one.
It is oh so different from Acts l and ll.

Act l was exciting.
Discovering how to live, love and 'do'
involved education,
both formal and otherwise.
Intertwined in this came the relationships
that influenced decision making and the outcomes,
both vocational and avocational
we now can look back upon.
At times it was breathtaking!

The Second Act largely focused on
the 'doing' phase of life'.
At times it was spellbinding.
Other times frightening
and on occasion, disappointing.
I can't speak for the audience,
but by and large
the reviews seemed positive.

The Third and final Act is live theater at it's best
as the actions of l & ll
strongly influence
the 'real- time' action, the 'now.'

Fatalists maintain that Acts l & ll predetermine the Final Act.

I know this to be true at some level,
(we can't rewrite the history of our lives,)
but join me at 'tweaking the outcomes.'

The first section of The Third Act
has surpassed my expectations.
The plan is to maintain the pace.

So There U Have It
is an opportunity for you
to participate
in the writing of the Final Act.
I invite you to contribute
your observations, wit and wisdom
in the Comments section.

We know how it will end,
we just don't know
what awaits along the way.
Join me on the journey!

Death Valley, Southeastern CA

Death Valley, Southeastern CA
We spent a lot of time in the American Southwest this fall, and loved it.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

We've arrived...in Arizona, that is


It's great to be back in AZ

Wow!

It's 89 degrees Fahrenheit. And a whole winter of it to look forward to. We arrived in Sun City West today at noon.

For those of you who check this blog on a somewhat regular basis, I apologize for the hiatus.
Oldest grandchild Kyle, (gck) reprimanded me via e-mail saying that his daily disappointment may soon be affecting his grades in university. At least that's what I think he was saying subliminally.

And it is frustrating while on the road not having e-contact with friends, family and the net in general. So we're going to explore the possibility of a phone card/mobile hot spot. I'll keep the world, or those few on this earth who use this blog to see what's happening in the mind of santaray on any given day, informed as to our progress on this front. Any and all suggestions are welcome.

Oh, great news! You've been seeing my little tribute to Millie Seaton, (up in the top right corner) the provider of one of my very first Santa's. Well, this past weekend Elsie and I were able to catch up with Doc, her husband of 59 years before cancer ended her life this past Spring. It couldn't, however, take away the legacy and memories that so many friends and acquaintances recall and will always cherish.

Well, was this a treat or what. Doc still lives off of the 17th green of one of the nicest golf courses in TX. Doc was the one who convinced me to begin a brain injury rehabilitation and life-long living community in Niagara. He also became my mentor and friend.

It was brilliant to remember the past with Doc and even more exciting to talk about our present lives.

Oh, and he introduced us to the "Kindle." Elsie and I haven't ordered ours yet, but I'll bet that we each have one soon! It revolutionalizes the way you acquire books, and, if you carry a purse, it allows you to carry your entire library and favourite newspapers with you at all times. One more reason to carry that bag, (purse) Vic and Harry and all of you seven grandsons!

Doc is one of a kind. He had to excuse himself Saturday afternoon, one of his grandson's and spouse were meeting with him to review and further plan progress in university. He is a mentor to each of his grand kids as they pursue higher education.

As a psychiatrist, he developed an interest in persons with injury to the brain and started a modest rural community living program that evolved into the largest brain injury program in the US. Tangram was the model that we carefully studied as Anagram came alive. Doc at home

Doc learned magic at a much younger age. He has always enjoyed the art form, and it has become an almost all-consuming hobby now. He is very involved in the association and plans and hosts conferences and more. Good on you, Doc!

Why were we in Austin, you could have asked, if you really cared! Well, early this summer I was contacted by Dr. Barry Willer, a key colleague from the Anagram and Ontario Brain Injury Association years. He asked if I would participate as a respondent to their presentation on some very interesting research that they have been doing.

And boy, was I glad that I had said yes. Secondly I learned a lot. But even more importantly, firstly I guess, it was like old home week as I was once again interacting with friends and acquaintances from the field of brain injury rehabilitation that I hadn't seen in ten tears.

Well, it's time for bed. But I can't leave without welcoming my much older sister back to Canada. I understand that Dea is returning, with her granddaughter Natasha after visiting another g.d. in Asia for a few weeks. I invite you to tell your story on my blog if you don't want to set up your own Dea. Although I'm sure that you'll be posting your pictures on your Facebook wall shortly.

Love to you'all, and as another mentor of mine says every Christmas Eve, "and to all a Good Night."
Ciao, Santaray





2 comments:

  1. Finally! haha i was about to leave my computer but thought I might as well check in the off chance that you updated ur blog and im glad i did! good to know your still kickin it down there and had a good time!lol say hi to grandma for me

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  2. That would be a "murse" :)
    (a man purse)
    Love you guys! Glad to know you've arrived safe and sound. Florida is wonderful!!!

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These would be us, Elsie and Ray

These would be us, Elsie and Ray
On the Saugeen in August

Books worth remembering that have passed through my brain

  • Younger Next Year, Crowley and Lodge
  • The Book of Negroes, Hill
  • Team of Rivals, Doris Kearns Goodwin
  • Salt
  • Reading the Rocks, (an autobiography of earth)
  • Letter to a Christian Nation, Harris
  • Jesus Interrupted, Ehrman
  • How Jesus became Christian, Wilson
  • Blink, Gladwell
  • America B C, Fell